On our aging society / stories of senior citizens
My students now have some fresh ideas on growing old now that they have just learned the essay The VIrtue of Growing Old by Carol Siskin ( http://www.oppapers.com/essays/There-Plusses-Aging/166460 ). In this forum,they talk about old people that they know of or stories related to senior citizens. You are welcome to join in our discussion.
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friendship
We should share the happiness and sadness together.We should help each other, care about each other, undanstand each other, love each other. Friendship is fire Friendship is light Friendship is sunshine Friendship is everything sometimes, it can give us the courage and confidence to reach our goal.
The old people I know The
The old people I know
The old people I know is my neighbor—a woman.
She died when she was 103 years old .at that time I was in my middle school.
When she died I was very sad because she was my admirable people in my life.
In my mind she was very kind and warm-hearted. She liked to help others when they were in trouble. For example , she always donated some money or some books or some new clothes to the charity and some poor areas .
She like reading even though she was very old . she always said that books can gave us pleasure and made us young .
And she was a optimistic person as if she were no worry . she always taught me somethings I can not learn from our books. And she told me young people should learn a lot of things from elder people .because elder people live a more long time in the world and experience too much about this world . they have more judgments about world affairs.
And she can make her family warm and happy because she gave lots of concern and did lots things for her family . also she was loved by lots people.
So she was my most admirable people in my life.
Even though she has died , I love her all the time.
Older People That We Know
That was a touching comment you wrote and you are such a beautiful person. You two sounded close and it must have been very hard for you when she passed, especially since you were young. The good thing is that you have all the great memories of spending time with her and getting to know her. She sounds very wise and kind, I hope I am that wise and live to be that old. 103 years...wow!
There is an older lady that is my neighbor that reminds me a lot of your neighbor. She LOVES to read and she is always busy. She likes to bake and do yardwork and she is in her mid 90s. She is also still very young at heart like your friendly neighbor. My neighbor's name is Margaret, what was your neighbor's name (if you don't mind me asking)?
-Summer D.
San Diego, CA, United States
Who Should Be Responsible
Who Should Be Responsible for Our Old People?
As the result of birth control and improvement of medical care, supporting the old has become an issue of China today.
Because of the different culture and tradition, supporting the old is different from country to country. For instance, British is a developed country and the problem of supporting the old is solved very well these years. The government takes a series of measures to solve the problem and also pays a lot of money for the old every year in order to make them live better.
In China, because of its tradition, the old people are mostly supported by their children. But our government and our society are taking measures to support the old.
As the development of economy and society is so rapid that we believe the system of our country to support the old would be perfect one day.
Who is Responsible for the Elderly?
I understand what you are talking about, we have similar controversies going on in the United States about our large aging society. Ours is also from advances in healthcare and of course the Baby Booms after past American wars (like World War II and The Vietnam War). The government here has many programs geared to help the elderly financially for retirement like Social Security, 401K retirement funds, and other retirement programs funded by the Federal Government.
I personally believe that in addition to all the funded programs, it is also the young adults' job in the comunnities to take care of the elderly as they age, like in one of the other postings from one of your classmates about caring for his old loved neighbor before she passed away. I think that since they (the elderly) took care of us(young people) as babies, that it is our responsibility to care for our old as they cared for us. That's just how it's suppose to be. I do not believe that Government care alone is sufficient enough to make up for human care and compassion, as we will all get old eventually and need the care of others.
-Summer D.
San Diego, CA, United States
Hello chinese student. You
Hello chinese student. You said that supporting the old is an issue in China today. It is also an issue in America. My grampa is sick rite now and were trying to find the best medical facility to keep him in. The government is not helping us and me and my family have to support him and pay for the medical treatment
when i becom old
I thought The photo that it's one of the most ordinary sights in our daily lives, an old couple holding on to each other on the street. If we stop and observe, we will most likely to notice that love is actually all around. he said "Love is a beautiful thing, and so is getting old. That's because in either way, love as sturdy as the above couple's is not going to fade, and nothing - not age, poverty, or death can reduce their love. With old couples, they no longer need to speak their mind. It is not hard to see why, as they know each other so well and for so long that they already know what their lover needs".
And i have a dream that when i become old,i would walking down with my husbant.and in afternoon,we would run together.You will think that it's so easly,but i think it's hard to keep.
So i would like to becoming old,i think is very interesing.And my mind can grow up...
Getting Older
I agree with you, theres nothing wrong with getting older. It's natural and will happen to everyone someday. I also have seen the same sight here of an older couple holding hands or doing something cute like grocery shopping together. I hope that I am settled down and completely content like that couple someday. Things like that always make me thing of my granparents. They'll yell and tease each other, then go to Bingo (or the casino) and its all completely out of love. What do you want your life to be like when you are older? What are your parents or grandparents like?
-Summer D.
San Diego, CA, United States
Miss an old woman
I miss her an oid and respectful woman.
Older People That We Know
Oh really? What was she like? Was she a relative of yours?
Both my grandparents on my mothers side passed away a long time ago. I'm always bitter about how my sister got to meet my grandpa and get to know my grandma too and I never got to...they both passed when I was young, so I can definitely relate to your loss.
-Summer D.
San Diego, CA, United States
my grandmother
My Dear Old Grandmother
My grandmother is 83 years old. She is a lovely lady. She is tall but thin, though, she is healthy. She is very lenient with many wrinkles on her face. When she smiles, I feel very warm as if I were in the warm spring, sweet and soft.
My grandmother has six children, three boys and three girls, which makes her and my grandfather work very hard to bring them up. Tough as they are, they are very happy. They are so kind parents that they tried their best to let their children get rid of the poor conditions , have a good future and then live a happy life. Now, my three uncles and two aunts have been dependent, and my grandfather was passed away 2 years after I was born, which makes my grandmother feel very lonely. If only I could with my grandmother when she is lonely! I feel comfort when she is happy. I think I should often go and see her as many times as I can. She lives with two of my uncles now. She goes to bed early and gets up early in the morning every day. She seems to be busy every day, because she always like to do something. When she finishes housework, she would sit down, take the book and read with her glasses. I can always learn many things from my grandmother.
Last year, I remembered, when my mother and I went to see her, she was ill, when she saw us, she was so happy that she got up immediately. I am sad, because when she is ill, I can’t look after her.
I hope all of the senior citizens in the world are happy and healthy!
Hello Huang, Allow me
Hello Huang,
Allow me to start by saying that you are absolutely right when you say that your grandmother brightens a smile on her face when she sees her family. In my family from my mother’s side I don’t have any grandparents alive, but from my father’s side I am bless to have both of my grandparents. When my mother’s parents were alive I took them for granted and I now regret not being able to tell them how much I loved them. This is why I now tell my father’s parents every time I can, how much I love them. I think that you should visit your grandmother as much as you can to make her live longer and happier. =]
Claudia T.
San Diego C.A
United States
the problem between my mother and my grandma
From the old, the relationship between mother and the daughter in law is the hardest one to deal with.
My mother and my grandma got on well with each other before my aunt married. My grandma had done a bad mistake, and my mother was very angry. She could not forgive my grandma, and asked my sisters and brother and I not to call her and tall with her. We did not know how to do. We won’t to hurt them, they are both our close relatives .who can help us? No one can help, because this is a problem between my mother and my grandma. Only themselves can solve it. But time helps us solve the problem.
Its not your fault
Iv seen this happen with my family, and it is still going on. Not like your situation in general, but similar. Honestly, in my opinion, i find it pitiful that we, the children have to go along with this. If theres a conflict going on between people, that doesnt involve any of us, we shouldnt be effected. You should be able to speak with your grandma, there is nothing between you two thats making conflict. Whats going on is only between your mom and grandma.
Hasib H, Per 3.
SD CA USA
Even though thats a bad
Even though thats a bad situation, time will heal it. I'v seen it happen in my family along time ago,but not nessacerily the same situation. I found that the only thing that could help was to keep trying to talk to one another and just leave the past in the past, and try to look forward to the good. After all you guys are family, and you cannot avoid seeing each other.
CHRIS RODRIGUEZ
period 5
U.S.A
I am sorry of hearing this.
I am sorry of hearing this. I think many people also have this problems. You said you couldn't help them, but I think you just couldn't find the right way to help. You can talk to them, tell them what you feel and let them realize it is not a good idea of hating each other. Also you can point out that they have to learn to forgive and understand each other. Sure time can help solving this problem, but I think it will be better if you try to help them out.
Lihua H
My Dear Old Grandmother My
My Dear Old Grandmother
My grandmother is 83 years old. She is a lovely lady. She is tall but thin, though, she is healthy. She is very lenient with many wrinkles on her face. When she smiles, I feel very warm as if I were in the warm spring, sweet and soft.
My grandmother has six children, three boys and three girls, which makes her and my grandfather work very hard to bring them up. Tough as they are, they are very happy. They are so kind parents that they tried their best to let their children get rid of the poor conditions , have a good future and then live a happy life. Now, my three uncles and two aunts have been dependent, and my grandfather was passed away 2 years after I was born, which makes my grandmother feel very lonely. If only I could with my grandmother when she is lonely! I feel comfort when she is happy. I think I should often go and see her as many times as I can. She lives with two of my uncles now. She goes to bed early and gets up early in the morning every day. She seems to be busy every day, because she always like to do something. When she finishes housework, she would sit down, take the book and read with her glasses. I can always learn many things from my grandmother.
Last year, I remembered, when my mother and I went to see her, she was ill, when she saw us, she was so happy that she got up immediately. I am sad, because when she is ill, I can’t look after her.
I hope all of the senior citizens in the world are happy and healthy!
Reply to Huang Fangping
Hey Huang Fangping, you wrote a very touching, beautiful entry. I have a grandma to is also sick. I have visited her about once a year and it is very hard for her to do things sometimes. She hurt her hip so it causes her pain to walk. I also have a sick grandfather who had surgery not to long ago. I have realized when having a sick elderly relative you have to make sure to tell and show them how much you appreciate them before it is too late. I make sure to massage my grandma when I see her and call my grandpa to check in on him.
I also hope that all of the senior citizens in the world are happy and healthy! You can really learn a lot for their knowledge of the past.
J Ward P4, San Diego CA USA
Old friend
Old friend is a person who you have met and lived tergether for many years.You and him or her share the hapiness and sorrow all the time.From the young age,you two see the old saying ,make an old story,and finaly become old acquaintance .your old relationship is pure like water,which make others jealous.From old place ,old rags.In a word,the old relationship will last forever.
MY GRANDMOTHER
My Grandmother
I have a grandmother who is 88 years old now. She is a very great woman, she brought up 5 children by herself, because my grandfather died after the last child born. So my grandmother worked hardly to support the family.
Now our lives improved, grandmother has a comfort life, but she always keeps her good habit. She never wastes rice or the other things. She just values everything around her.
Although grandmother was very old, she was healthy. She often does exercises every morning, people admire her. And we are proud of her.
Grandmother cherishes us very much, if she has something good, she always remember to leaves them to us. We are children, we just share the giveness. But now I know that grandmother gives her all lives to us. This is a great woman who does such a lot in her life.
I love you my dear grandmother.
My old uncle
My old uncle
I think that elderly people have thr possible advantages of living in a special residential house. We human beings have the ability to adjust to the environment we are in.
Here I want to mention something about my uncle. He is 62 years old. My cousins have moved out for living in the centre city for years while my uncle and aunt live in the countryside. However,he lives a happy lifein his modern house built by the native workers,which is paid by my cousins. The house looks very comfortable,and it really is. He prefers to talk together in the small shop with a group people who are nearly the same ageeveryday. They talk something about what happened in the village recently and some current political situations and sports or so. You can not imagine that how they are happy and leisurely. He's so proud that he is good at debating. When it's time for lunch and supper,he returns home and cooks everything he want to eat. Sometimes he likes hanging around in the street,or playing mahjiang in the exclusive house for elderly people. He walks almost one hour per day as the exercise time,so that he can keep a healthy body. He always smiles to everyone when talking.he is a generous,gentle and kind-hearted person,so he is not mean to other and tries his best to help them,and so he recieves the respect from others. He talks the hard time in his age when he was young,especially when we are sitting aroud the fire in winter.
He doesn't need to mix with the complitive society or relationship. It's the time for him to live a peaceful and happy life although he is austere. Much money is saved as he loves dearly his sons and daughters,because he knows that the money is not easy to earn.
You can not say that being older means that you are falling behind the tendency or you are not needed. They can improvethemselves as the free time adds. So,they can do what they want and keep studying instead of being a mop.
An old man He is an old man
An old man
He is an old man who hasn’t got any literacy and is an idiomatic poor peasant, he has stepped into his 69 year but without his wife, in fact, he hasn’t married to a woman. Maybe he is lonely but not
Real, he is diligent and always ready to do something for the other home.
This family has five sons and the youngest has been ever named to be his son, but he never called him father and never did his responsibility as a son though the unrewarded and selflessness and love him so much.
The old man even likes to take care of the families’ grandchildren; he will buy some candies or other presents for them.
I don’t know how to express my felling to this but I respect him with my deepen emotion to his numerous contribution for others’ happiness.
hey!
Hello.
It is sad to hear about the lonely 69 year old man. Do you know him or it just a story you have read?
I am happy to tell you about my great grandpa. He just turned 80 years old. He got married 5 years ago to a lovely woman her met after his first wife died. He is a very happy old man who loves his family and is full of energy. I just want you to know there are happy old people out there. Are your grandparents still alive?
Kassity Wotring Per.4
USA
An old people
An Old people
The old people I know who learns in his life. It is common that the people don’t want to do anything when they are old, especially learning. Because most of them fell weak and lonely, and think that is no meaning and value. But this person is different. He is very old, but still learn all the time. He learns history, geography and so on. He often says: this is my interest and I must learn the knowledge or I will be out of date, so he talks to us that lifelong learning is almost a must in today’s knowledge economy, and if you want to stay competitive in society and function well as members of society, the best way is to keep on learning, learning different things, trying to equip yourselves with the new knowledge and new skills that are useful at your workplace. So he is so knowledgeable, he knows the global well.
We all respect him very much: he sets a good example to us. He is my idol in my dairy life.
Do you fear become old ?
Do you fear become old ? What will you do when you become old?
In my hometown ,there are many old person and children ,because the children’s parents go to big cities earn money to support the family .They have to leave them along ,you know old person and children can not take good care of by themselves .So it is a big problems in my hometown.
I know a old man in my town ,he lives along ,but he did not feels lonely because he always play with many people .He is the oldest person in the town ,he good at Calligraphy and drawing .Every morning, he will take a cage to a park ,at there he can talk with many people about the bird ,the country ,the life ,the famous person or other interesting things .H will have a rest at noon .By the good rest , he can play bajiang with other old person in the afternoon .After that he will back home to draw a picture and practice .writing .His life is very leisurely I think .He have two sons and one daughter, they will come back home on Spring Festival .It is the happiness time for him .But I think the sons and daughter should pay more time to stay with the old man though he never say he feel lonely .But I know he just do not want to make them feel he is their burden .So give some time for your parents and talk with them they will feel more happy in their later time .
My grandmother died 8 years
My grandmother died 8 years ago. But I still think of her sometime as she was the person who loved me most when I was a little girl.
Major of Chinese families, elder generations love boys much than girls while my grandmother did not. She treated our three children equally. To me, that is the grateful honor.
It was a fairly happy time when I lived with her. We slept in a bed. I rested my head on her arm and in summer she waved the fan to make me cool.
I liked to show what I had learnt in school to her. I danced for her after what she always praised me. No body praised me except her. I t was she that gave me courage, made me happy and give me a happy childhood.
One day, it rains cats and dogs the whole morning. I was stranded in school. I can’t take my way to go home though I was so hungry. After long, grandmother came into sight. How cheerful and surprising! Can you image that an old woman walked slowly on the muddy path with umbrella in one hand and food on another hand?
When I feel sad I will think of her, I think if she were by my side, she will comfort me and hung me in her arms. She played an important role in my life. She liked a protector to me.
I missed her so much.
So do you have story about old people to tell us?
Elderly people need spiritual care
Our aging society is coming ,it means more and more elderly people in the society. The main burden of caring for the old people falls on the family .So it brings many problems for family. The main problem is that old people live at home or in nursery home .
Opinions on that are different .Some people think that old people should live in nursery home ,because they are busy in working now, and have no time to take are of them . Furtherly, old people can play with others in the nursery home ,which is better than they just stay at home and do nothing. But someone are against that ,they figure what old people most need is spiritual care .Family are their spiritual home ,so they should live at home .
In my view ,I prefer the latter opinion .My grandmother is an example .She is 80 years old now ,but she is very well .She lives at home now ,and she always says that seeing us and living with us is her most happy thing .She can feel warm from family members .If possible ,I’m eager go to visit her . As we know ,human beings have emotions ,so elderly people need more spiritual care .If elderly people agree to stay at home ,we should let them live at home as possible as we can . Everyone will become old ,so we should love them.
An old man He is an old man
An old man
He is an old man who hasn’t got any literacy and is an idiomatic poor peasant, he has stepped into his 69 year but without his wife, in fact, he hasn’t married to a woman. Maybe he is lonely but not
Real, he is diligent and always ready to do something for the other home.
This family has five sons and the youngest has been ever named to be his son, but he never called him father and never did his responsibility as a son though the unrewarded and selflessness and love him so much.
The old man even likes to take care of the families’ grandchildren; he will buy some candies or other presents for them.
I don’t know how to express my felling to this but I respect him with my deepen emotion to his numerous contribution for others’ happiness.
Do you fear become old ?
Do you fear become old ? What will you do when you become old?
In my hometown ,there are many old person and children ,because the children’s parents go to big cities earn money to support the family .They have to leave them along ,you know old person and children can not take good care of by themselves .So it is a big problems in my hometown.
I know a old man in my town ,he lives along ,but he did not feels lonely because he always play with many people .He is the oldest person in the town ,he good at Calligraphy and drawing .Every morning, he will take a cage to a park ,at there he can talk with many people about the bird ,the country ,the life ,the famous person or other interesting things .H will have a rest at noon .By the good rest , he can play bajiang with other old person in the afternoon .After that he will back home to draw a picture and practice .writing .His life is very leisurely I think .He have two sons and one daughter, they will come back home on Spring Festival .It is the happiness time for him .But I think the sons and daughter should pay more time to stay with the old man though he never say he feel lonely .But I know he just do not want to make them feel he is their burden .So give some time for your parents and talk with them they will feel more happy in their later time .
an old man who I couldn't forgot
There is an old man, I don’t know his name, and I just called him “light elder”.
When I study in primary school, I always back home alone after sky turned dark; every time I through the dark door opening I was so frightened. But one day when I came the same place I saw a gleam of orange light. Lighten my way home. It’s he, an old man who takes charge of other’s bikes.Since then, everyday he will be there and show me the way.
In cold night, he made me warm.
He use his behavior gain my respect.
My grandmother died 8 years
My grandmother died 8 years ago. But I still think of her sometime as she was the person who loved me most when I was a little girl.
Major of Chinese families, elder generations love boys much than girls while my grandmother did not. She treated our three children equally. To me, that is the grateful honor.
It was a fairly happy time when I lived with her. We slept in a bed. I rested my head on her arm and in summer she waved the fan to make me cool.
I liked to show what I had learnt in school to her. I danced for her after what she always praised me. No body praised me except her. I t was she that gave me courage, made me happy and give me a happy childhood.
One day, it rains cats and dogs the whole morning. I was stranded in school. I can’t take my way to go home though I was so hungry. After long, grandmother came into sight. How cheerful and surprising! Can you image that an old woman walked slowly on the muddy path with umbrella in one hand and food on another hand?
When I feel sad I will think of her, I think if she were by my side, she will comfort me and hung me in her arms. She played an important role in my life. She liked a protector to me.
I missed her so much.
So do you have story about old people to tell us?
an old man who I couldn't forgot
There is an old man, I don’t know his name, and I just called him “light elder”.
When I study in primary school, I always back home alone after sky turned dark; every time I through the dark door opening I was so frightened. But one day when I came the same place I saw a gleam of orange light. Lighten my way home. It’s he, an old man who takes charge of other’s bikes.Since then, everyday he will be there and show me the way.
In cold night, he made me warm.
He use his behavior gain my respect.
Everyone will become old
Everyone will become old and then they will die, but we should try our best to make our lives colorful even though we are old. We can do so many things such as taking part in some activities to rejoice ourselves. Becoming old is not a bad thing, we should keep a active attitude so that we won't feel tied and we will live a very meaningful life.
When we become old, we can retire and do things we want to do.
When we become old, we can think about what we have faced with. I believe memory is the most beautiful thing in one’s mind.
My grandmother died 8 years
My grandmother died 8 years ago. But I still think of her sometime as she was the person who loved me most when I was a little girl.
Major of Chinese families, elder generations love boys much than girls while my grandmother did not. She treated our three children equally. To me, that is the grateful honor.
It was a fairly happy time when I lived with her. We slept in a bed. I rested my head on her arm and in summer she waved the fan to make me cool.
I liked to show what I had learnt in school to her. I danced for her after what she always praised me. No body praised me except her. I t was she that gave me courage, made me happy and give me a happy childhood.
One day, it rains cats and dogs the whole morning. I was stranded in school. I can’t take my way to go home though I was so hungry. After long, grandmother came into sight. How cheerful and surprising! Can you image that an old woman walked slowly on the muddy path with umbrella in one hand and food on another hand?
When I feel sad I will think of her, I think if she were by my side, she will comfort me and hang me in her arms. She played an important role in my life. She liked a protector to me.
I missed her so much.
So, do you have story about ald people to tell us?
My old uncle
My old uncle
I think that elderly people have thr possible advantages of living in a special residential house. We human beings have the ability to adjust to the environment we are in.
Here I want to mention something about my uncle. He is 62 years old. My cousins have moved out for living in the centre city for years while my uncle and aunt live in the countryside. However,he lives a happy lifein his modern house built by the native workers,which is paid by my cousins. The house looks very comfortable,and it really is. He prefers to talk together in the small shop with a group people who are nearly the same ageeveryday. They talk something about what happened in the village recently and some current political situations and sports or so. You can not imagine that how they are happy and leisurely. He's so proud that he is good at debating. When it's time for lunch and supper,he returns home and cooks everything he want to eat. Sometimes he likes hanging around in the street,or playing mahjiang in the exclusive house for elderly people. He walks almost one hour per day as the exercise time,so that he can keep a healthy body. He always smiles to everyone when talking.he is a generous,gentle and kind-hearted person,so he is not mean to other and tries his best to help them,and so he recieves the respect from others. He talks the hard time in his age when he was young,especially when we are sitting aroud the fire in winter.
He doesn't need to mix with the complitive society or relationship. It's the time for him to live a peaceful and happy life although he is austere. Much money is saved as he loves dearly his sons and daughters,because he knows that the money is not easy to earn.
You can not say that being older means that you are falling behind the tendency or you are not needed. They can improvethemselves as the free time adds. So,they can do what they want and keep studying instead of being a mop.
Elderly people
Elderly people need spiritual care
Our aging society is coming ,it means more and more elderly people in the society. The main burden of caring the old people falls on the family .So it brings many problems for family. The main problem is whether old people live at home or in nursery home .
Opinions on that are different .Some people think that old people should live in nursery home ,because they are busy in working now, and have no time to take care of them . Furtherly, old people can play with others in the nursery home ,which is better than they just stay at home and do nothing. But someone are against that ,they figure what old people most need is spiritual care .Family are their spiritual home ,so they should live at home .
In my view ,I prefer the latter opinion .My grandmother is an example .She is 80 years old now ,but she is very well .She lives at home now ,and she always says that seeing us and living with us is her most happy thing .She can feel warm from family members .If possible ,I’m eager go to visit her . As we know ,human beings have emotions ,so elderly people need more spiritual care .If elderly people agree to stay at home ,we should let them live at home as possible as we can . Everyone will become old ,so we should love them,which is equel to love us .
elderly persons live in special residential house
Now most of the elderly persons live in a special residential house. It is good for them to live in. Many elderly person live get together, they don’t feel dreary and lonely there. It could give more spare time to their children to do others things. It not only reduced the pressure of their children’s, but also was good for them to live more comfortable.
Taked my neighborhood’s for example. She lived in a special residential house. She felt happy to live in it. When I went to visit her, she said that she lived in here was more comfortable than lived at home. At least she didn’t feel lonely and unhappily again. And her children often came to visit her. Besides, many elderly persons live get together here, they always chatted and sometimes played games get together. The most important thing was that she didn’t make her children worry. So her children could keep their mind on doing their business.
Besides, the other elderly person who also lived in the special residential house said that she lived in here was happier than lived at home. Because when she lived at home, her children were worried about her safe. They didn’t agree her to go out lonely, but they had no free time to go out with her. Now at least she could walk around the park lonely in the special residential house and she didn’t feel dreary. In the other hand, here had the nurse to take good care of her in every time. So she liked live in here.
So I think the elderly persons lived in the special residential house not only good for themselves, but also good for their children. They could feel happy to live in here. They had distinct advantages here. Do you agree with me?
Everyone will become old
Everyone will become old and then they will die, but we should try our best to make our lives colorful even though we are old. We can do so many things such as taking part in some activities to rejoice ourselves. Becoming old is not a bad thing, we should keep a active attitude so that we won't feel tied and we will live a very meaningful life.
When we become old, we can retire and do things we want to do.
When we become old, we can think about what we have faced with. I believe memory is the most beautiful thing in one’s mind.
We should learn something
We should learn something from the old .As we know ,the old have much experience about life which is good for us in our daily life. .Maybe they did not have much education in youth .It is not mean that they have less knowledge.On the the contrary,The knowledge they have is very practical and useful .They have confronted many difficult and formidable situations.They know how to deal with all kinds of problems. So we should show respect to them.If we meet something difficult that we can not handle well,we can consult with the old ,and they will give us some good suggestions so that we can do it successfully.So we should live with them and learn from them anywhere at any time.
Hello Luoxianggu, I
Hello Luoxianggu,
I completely agree with you, we can learn so many things from the elderly. The elderly do have the most experience and have learned a lot in their lifetime and it would be a great idea to learn from them and have them share stories with us so we can know where they are coming from and hear what they have been through. Maybe we can learn from their mistakes instead of repeating them ourselves. By giving them respect is appericiating what they have been through and surviving it.
Farhiya A.
San Diego, CA USA
My old grandmother
My old grandmother
My grandmother now is about 75 years old .You can't image that she can walk flexibly,she can do cooking,she can do washing ,she can do cleaning,and any other odd things.Amost all kinds of housework she can do. what will make you seprise is that her hair is black ,like most of young people.In a word ,she is in her good health .
In my memory ,I have never seen my grandmother do farming work ,even though we have a lot of land .But what is my grandmother's work? Does she is a lazy woman? The answer is of couse No.
Since I and my brother was born,her task was stay at home and looked after us. Took bath for us ,cooked for us,washed clothes for us and many a lot of things .After we grown up,she looked after my uncles' children just like when she looked after us,day after day ,year after year.
She has 5 sons and 1 daughter.I never see she qurral with my grandfather,they get along well with eath other.They set a good example for many young couples.
I hope my grandmother can live more longer ,we need she,our family can't lost her ,she is our suppose of metle.
dear, 韦海燕 My
dear, 韦海燕
My grandmother is 83 and she is still in very good health. She has had five sons and two daughters and over the years has cooked and cleaned the house and taken care of all of them very well. Now that all of her children are grown up she looks after her grandchildren and she always is very caring for us and always cooks us excellent meals.
Charlie W.
San Diego, CA
Your Grandmother
Dear 韦海燕,
I hope I got your name right, I did not know it in English so I copied it from your posting--is it Wei?. I don't think your grandmother is lazy at all! She does everything that all grandmothers and mothers for a matter of fact do for their families that they love. Your grandmother sounds like the stable rock of the family and the one that everyone can depend on. She has a lot of responsibilities, I do all my own laundy and I'll tell you what...it's not easy work! She deserves a lot of respect and you sound like you really love her. So you have 4 uncles and an aunt? Do you get to see them all often?? Thats a big family.
-Summer D.
San Diego, CA, United States
Caring our old
Caring our old parents.
Being filial to parents is one of the Chinese traditional virtues. As we all know, when people get older, they begin to fear loneliness and emptiness and they really need the company of their children.
There is a big family in Liuzhou . The grandpa is over 100, and the grandma is over 80. Both of them are health and longevity. I think the secret of it is their children′s responsibility .They try their best to look after their parents.
Our parents have ever taken so much pains to bring us up and we can never figure out how much they have sacrificed for us. So , we should take good care of them when they become old.
Hello Wanglingzhen i agree
Hello Wanglingzhen i agree with what you said. In my culture once the children are grown and start their career they are suppose to look after their parents.I feel that it is the children's responsibilty to look after their parents. Since our parents struggle to raise us the least we can do to repay them with love and care.
Laewm K
San Diego
Growing Older
I can agree with you here Wanglingzhen. In today's society in America taking care of ones elderly parents is a traditional as well. Growing old can be lonely and empty but it all depends on one's perception of getting older. Parents sacrifice and give so much and that is why we as the next generation to work hard to pay off our debt to them. It is important to take care and show love to your elderly family. Without them there would be no you. I am trying to be more appreciative of my parents and the things they do. In the long run I think I know I will always love and be there for them.
Raquel Ivery San Diego Ca USA
A 100-year-old woman story
Living centenarians happiness
------Groups such as centenarious Tang
Shixing County in the town of Lao Cai Shen has a 103-year-old Deng groups such as the elderly ,has been head out ,a good talker ,Her cheerful personality and never a dispute with the people,are now four generations children and grandchildren around the knee happy life.
The elderly have three children,a son,two daughters and two daughters have not been living Memory according to the elderly,she is basically what Health and disease did not so far have seen a doctor twice. It is understood that the elderly do not diet food,chicken.duck fish,meat and all kinds of vegetablea are ready to eat ,do not pay attention to hot and cold. Now able to eat a bowl of nice each meal, and from time to time are quantilative slowly,and never overating.
Under the careful care of their families, the elderly physically quite tough,can take care of themselves now live,or even wash their own.





My Grandma is in the other side of the world!
I met my grandma onces, she came a couple of years back around when i was 10. She was thin, and tall. It felt great to meet her because she was my only blood grandma, my other grandma passed away before I was born. She lives in the middle east and I never saw her anymore. Although I do speak to her on the phone. Her past was very hard, she was raising 4 boys without a husband to help her. She is more of the love type, than remember and hate. Someday I wish I can see her again, and hopfully soon.
Hasib H Per.3
San Diego, CA USA